Chapter 1
The Story Behind “Crazy”
By Aldrich the Wise Counselor
Throughout my whole life (35+Years) I have had many experiences when it comes to Female friendships which I have ended up cutting out of my life because at some point I realized they were too intense or “Crazy”. It has always been a joke of mines calling women “ Crazy ” because that was the only way I can describe their irrational or unexplainable behavior.
I’ve read many blogs of women looking for an answer and they are hardly given a reply of saying, Gurl, You are Fucked Up”, no, it has/mostly been what they want to hear, It’s Not Your Fault, It’s Not You, You are Not Crazy, It’s Him, It’s Her, you have to value yourself, blah blah blah, there is always someone to blame for their “Crazy”
People use the word “crazy” to mean silly, strange, or outlandish; they use the word as a modifier like “extremely” or “intensely”; they use it to mean irrational or unexplainable; and sometimes they use it to describe mental illness
For as long as I can remember I have been, backstabbed, betrayed, and have been taken advantage of by women with their lies. They have always come into my life with a big smile on their face and a knife behind their back ready to stab, they have called me their BFF, Gay BFF, Brother, Sister from Another mother, Gay Husband, and all while they were either talking behind my back, gossiping and criticizing just about any decision I made.
I used to get so mad because of their hypocrisy and kept saying, what the actual fuck, didn’t I just told you it’s a secret, don’t tell anyone, this is between you and me, swear on your mother’s name you will never tell anyone, but then again, they can’t help themselves of actually not saying anything, it’s on their DNA and always comes up like word vomit during their Whatsapp group.
When I use the term “Crazy” it’s mostly based on their irrational or unexplainable actions that I cannot really understand. I’ve listen in silence while trying to find a reasonable explanation but always end up on a dead-end word “Crazy”. Why is that? is it that they are just Crazy? I’m hoping with this blog I will be able to understand them better and hopefully, they will understand themselves, and maybe they can hold themselves accountable for their action and not simply blame it on their “period” which I’ve heard over a billion times or any other random explanation they can come up with like “Mercury In Retrograde”
For as long as I can remember I have been, backstabbed, betrayed, taken advantage of by women with their lies and hypocrisy.
It took me many years to realize, not to tell women any secret you want to keep private, they won’t waste a second to throw you under the bus, even if they say, “I swear I won’t say a word” that means, I will tell only all of my closets 25 “Crazy” girlfriends and if I thought they were vicious to me, I have always been more in shock of how they are between them (the worst), they just can’t help it, it’s this constant competition, jealousy (which they will never admit) and more than anything else, their hypocrisy used to surprise me the most. I have had come to the conclusion that they are just plain hypocrites, enemies of themselves, even more during the #metoo movement, though while I do believe and personally known women that have unfortunately been abused by men and discrimination all across the world (this blog IS NOT about that) I have also seen the double standard of some, used to their own advantage and when it’s convenient by calling themselves victims of the system when they are just playing with it (it’s more about this)
If YOU at some point, gossiped, laughed about someone’s misfortune even if in silent (which we all know they never do it in silent) told someone else’s secret, texted/called the same guy that ghosted you 100 times, spoke badly about someone, have spoken behind your “friends” back, slept with your friends BF, husband , partner or ex , returned back to your ex 500 times, lied, criticize, etc. Then you came to the right place. On this blog you will read about my experiences as well as complete strangers that I just met once in a gathering, bar, travels and I will get to share yours as well. I want to learn more about what women think about what makes them “Crazy” or what drives them to be a “hypocrite”
I’m not a professional writer, medical professional nor I intend to give professional advice whatsoever, I have experienced enough “Crazy” that I feel I’m an Unofficial Expert on the subject. So I will call this my personal thesis. If you are easily offended then this blog is not for you but If you have at some point being personally affected by a “crazy” woman or consider yourself one, then, please join the party.
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Chapter 1
The Story Behind “Crazy”
By Aldrich the Wise Counselor
Throughout my whole life (35+Years) I have had many experiences when it comes to Female friendships which I have ended up cutting out of my life because at some point I realized they were too intense or “Crazy”. It has always been a joke of mines calling women “ Crazy ” because that was the only way I can describe their irrational or unexplainable behavior.
I’ve read many blogs of women looking for an answer and they are hardly given a reply of saying, Gurl, You are Fucked Up”, no, it has/mostly been what they want to hear, It’s Not Your Fault, It’s Not You, You are Not Crazy, It’s Him, It’s Her, you have to value yourself, blah blah blah, there is always someone to blame for their “Crazy”
People use the word “crazy” to mean silly, strange, or outlandish; they use the word as a modifier like “extremely” or “intensely”; they use it to mean irrational or unexplainable; and sometimes they use it to describe mental illness
For as long as I can remember I have been, backstabbed, betrayed, and have been taken advantage of by women with their lies. They have always come into my life with a big smile on their face and a knife behind their back ready to stab, they have called me their BFF, Gay BFF, Brother, Sister from Another mother, Gay Husband, and all while they were either talking behind my back, gossiping and criticizing just about any decision I made.
I used to get so mad because of their hypocrisy and kept saying, what the actual fuck, didn’t I just told you it’s a secret, don’t tell anyone, this is between you and me, swear on your mother’s name you will never tell anyone, but then again, they can’t help themselves of actually not saying anything, it’s on their DNA and always comes up like word vomit during their Whatsapp group.
When I use the term “Crazy” it’s mostly based on their irrational or unexplainable actions that I cannot really understand. I’ve listen in silence while trying to find a reasonable explanation but always end up on a dead-end word “Crazy”. Why is that? is it that they are just Crazy? I’m hoping with this blog I will be able to understand them better and hopefully, they will understand themselves, and maybe they can hold themselves accountable for their action and not simply blame it on their “period” which I’ve heard over a billion times or any other random explanation they can come up with like “Mercury In Retrograde”
For as long as I can remember I have been, backstabbed, betrayed, taken advantage of by women with their lies and hypocrisy.
It took me many years to realize, not to tell women any secret you want to keep private, they won’t waste a second to throw you under the bus, even if they say, “I swear I won’t say a word” that means, I will tell only all of my closets 25 “Crazy” girlfriends and if I thought they were vicious to me, I have always been more in shock of how they are between them (the worst), they just can’t help it, it’s this constant competition, jealousy (which they will never admit) and more than anything else, their hypocrisy used to surprise me the most. I have had come to the conclusion that they are just plain hypocrites, enemies of themselves, even more during the #metoo movement, though while I do believe and personally known women that have unfortunately been abused by men and discrimination all across the world (this blog IS NOT about that) I have also seen the double standard of some, used to their own advantage and when it’s convenient by calling themselves victims of the system when they are just playing with it (it’s more about this)
If YOU at some point, gossiped, laughed about someone’s misfortune even if in silent (which we all know they never do it in silent) told someone else’s secret, texted/called the same guy that ghosted you 100 times, spoke badly about someone, have spoken behind your “friends” back, slept with your friends BF, husband , partner or ex , returned back to your ex 500 times, lied, criticize, etc. Then you came to the right place. On this blog you will read about my experiences as well as complete strangers that I just met once in a gathering, bar, travels and I will get to share yours as well. I want to learn more about what women think about what makes them “Crazy” or what drives them to be a “hypocrite”
I’m not a professional writer, medical professional nor I intend to give professional advice whatsoever, I have experienced enough “Crazy” that I feel I’m an Unofficial Expert on the subject. So I will call this my personal thesis. If you are easily offended then this blog is not for you but If you have at some point being personally affected by a “crazy” woman or consider yourself one, then, please join the party.
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Chapter 1
The Story Behind “Crazy”
By Aldrich the Wise Counselor
Throughout my whole life (35+Years) I have had many experiences when it comes to Female friendships which I have ended up cutting out of my life because at some point I realized they were too intense or “Crazy”. It has always been a joke of mines calling women “ Crazy ” because that was the only way I can describe their irrational or unexplainable behavior.
I’ve read many blogs of women looking for an answer and they are hardly given a reply of saying, Gurl, You are Fucked Up”, no, it has/mostly been what they want to hear, It’s Not Your Fault, It’s Not You, You are Not Crazy, It’s Him, It’s Her, you have to value yourself, blah blah blah, there is always someone to blame for their “Crazy”
People use the word “crazy” to mean silly, strange, or outlandish; they use the word as a modifier like “extremely” or “intensely”; they use it to mean irrational or unexplainable; and sometimes they use it to describe mental illness
For as long as I can remember I have been, backstabbed, betrayed, and have been taken advantage of by women with their lies. They have always come into my life with a big smile on their face and a knife behind their back ready to stab, they have called me their BFF, Gay BFF, Brother, Sister from Another mother, Gay Husband, and all while they were either talking behind my back, gossiping and criticizing just about any decision I made.
I used to get so mad because of their hypocrisy and kept saying, what the actual fuck, didn’t I just told you it’s a secret, don’t tell anyone, this is between you and me, swear on your mother’s name you will never tell anyone, but then again, they can’t help themselves of actually not saying anything, it’s on their DNA and always comes up like word vomit during their Whatsapp group.
When I use the term “Crazy” it’s mostly based on their irrational or unexplainable actions that I cannot really understand. I’ve listen in silence while trying to find a reasonable explanation but always end up on a dead-end word “Crazy”. Why is that? is it that they are just Crazy? I’m hoping with this blog I will be able to understand them better and hopefully, they will understand themselves, and maybe they can hold themselves accountable for their action and not simply blame it on their “period” which I’ve heard over a billion times or any other random explanation they can come up with like “Mercury In Retrograde”
For as long as I can remember I have been, backstabbed, betrayed, taken advantage of by women with their lies and hypocrisy.
It took me many years to realize, not to tell women any secret you want to keep private, they won’t waste a second to throw you under the bus, even if they say, “I swear I won’t say a word” that means, I will tell only all of my closets 25 “Crazy” girlfriends and if I thought they were vicious to me, I have always been more in shock of how they are between them (the worst), they just can’t help it, it’s this constant competition, jealousy (which they will never admit) and more than anything else, their hypocrisy used to surprise me the most. I have had come to the conclusion that they are just plain hypocrites, enemies of themselves, even more during the #metoo movement, though while I do believe and personally known women that have unfortunately been abused by men and discrimination all across the world (this blog IS NOT about that) I have also seen the double standard of some, used to their own advantage and when it’s convenient by calling themselves victims of the system when they are just playing with it (it’s more about this)
If YOU at some point, gossiped, laughed about someone’s misfortune even if in silent (which we all know they never do it in silent) told someone else’s secret, texted/called the same guy that ghosted you 100 times, spoke badly about someone, have spoken behind your “friends” back, slept with your friends BF, husband , partner or ex , returned back to your ex 500 times, lied, criticize, etc. Then you came to the right place. On this blog you will read about my experiences as well as complete strangers that I just met once in a gathering, bar, travels and I will get to share yours as well. I want to learn more about what women think about what makes them “Crazy” or what drives them to be a “hypocrite”
I’m not a professional writer, medical professional nor I intend to give professional advice whatsoever, I have experienced enough “Crazy” that I feel I’m an Unofficial Expert on the subject. So I will call this my personal thesis. If you are easily offended then this blog is not for you but If you have at some point being personally affected by a “crazy” woman or consider yourself one, then, please join the party.
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